On the Blog: Straight Talk from an Entrepreneur Coach
On The Ask’s blog you'll find no-nonsense insights, practical advice, and thought-provoking questions to fuel your entrepreneurial journey. Whether you're contemplating a major pivot, seeking to sharpen your decision-making skills, or simply looking to stay ahead of the pack, get valuable resources to level up.
Where are you starting the race to Authority Status?
Every founder I work with is heading to the same destination: a practice that's fulfilling, well-matched to their strengths, and financially rewarding. But they arrive from very different starting points. I map out five distinct profiles I see repeatedly across my coaching practice, from the Reluctant Generalist to the Expansive Builder, and what each one actually needs to move forward.
Why your business feels so amorphous
Ideas-based businesses are uniquely vulnerable to feeling amorphous, even to the person running them. Without physical edges to hold onto, your business can quietly evaporate during a holiday, a hard month, or a moment of doubt. Here's how to weigh it down.
Authority Stories with Kate Hurst
If your enquiries feel off, the instinct is often to rethink the offer — but usually it's the positioning that needs attention first. That's the thread running through this edition's coaching conversation, alongside Kate Hurst's authority story: how an NHS Psychologist found her standpoint, got fully booked, and started building something she once thought was out of reach.
The First Step to Building Authority
When everyone can publish, no one is automatically trusted. For experienced coaches and consultants, this creates a strange tension: the depth is there, but it lives scattered across client documents, workshop slides, and posts that never quite added up to anything. I make the case for the One Big Idea: the through-line that makes your expertise coherent, referral-ready, and capable of travelling without you.
Authority needs a centre of gravity.
Smart, visible founders often struggle with inconsistent inbound. Not because of a lack of talent, but because their thinking is fragmented across posts, offers, and platforms. Without a centre of gravity, authority doesn't compound.
Converting without being 'in the room’
Most founders who sell their thinking are still selling their time. If you have to be on a long call to convert, explain your thinking from scratch, or rely on chemistry to close; you're selling relational proximity, not authority.
Authority is more than words on a page.
True authority lives outside the page. It's not the words on your LinkedIn profile - it's the choices you make when those words start to cost you something. In this piece, I get candid about my own experience: four business lanes, each one coherent on the surface, collectively creating drag. I share the positioning framework that helped me simplify, and what I decided to let go of to build something more deliberate.
How to do your best work this year
Most business advice focuses on finding clients. Not enough focuses on becoming the kind of person clients cannot help but choose, stay with, and refer. I outline the six conditions that make best work possible for independent founders, from clear goals and the right support, to protecting focus and committing to craft depth over breadth.
The Quiet Compounding of Authority
Two years of focusing on authority-building brought financial security and consistency I hadn't experienced before. No viral moment. This happened through Coherence (ideas that connect), Commitment (staying with it), and Compounding (advantages that accumulate over time).
Authority without traction is a weird place to be.
Three patterns I see once the business basics are in place. People say "your thinking is so thoughtful" and share your work. It leads to Zoom coffees. But paid work hasn't followed. You've built intellectual authority without commercial clarity. People can't answer: "Can you solve my problem and what does working with you look like?"
The realities of building a scalable programme (and how you can join mine: Authority Club)
Authority Club started as a belief: that professionals shouldn't have to hustle endlessly or dance on social media to build sustainable businesses. After three cohorts and countless member transformations, it's become my life's work—teaching coaches and consultants to position themselves as authorities through strategic thinking and compelling writing. This post shares how the programme evolved, what makes it work, and how you can join the January intake.
The Eight Steps to Authority Status
Authority building isn't dead—it's the most powerful differentiator for consultants and coaches in 2025. But becoming known for your depth of thought requires more than consistent posting. It demands original thinking, signature frameworks, and a strategic path from trading time for money to building true leverage. Yhis guide maps the complete authority entrepreneur journey in eight distinct steps. You'll discover why most new founders fail by trying to skip crucial stages, what it really takes to move from hourly billing to scalable offers, and how frameworks create value beyond endless 1:1 calls.
Authority Stories with Natassia Miller
Hear from Natassia Miller, founder of Wonderlust, who transitioned from finance to sexology and built authority in intimacy education. She shares what coaching unlocked, her proudest moments (including hosting Sex Talks at Soho House NYC and features in major outlets), and her advice: "You're ready when you decide you're ready."
This one blog post blew up my business (in a good way)
In 2023, one particular blog post was responsible for over half my revenue - and that very same year, my business doubled. This is why I’m such a big believer in the power of Long-Form content, and in this post, share exactly how I created this result, and tips for you too.
This is what it means to be an Authority Entrepreneur
If you’re anything like most of the people I coach, you don’t just want to deliver good work for your clients, you also want a business that stands for something.
That’s what I call being an Authority Entrepreneur. This post gives you a check list to find out if you are one, as well as practical steps to follow as you build your business with Authority.
The 9–5 is dying, but self-employment isn’t a panacea.
Traditional 9-5 jobs are disappearing faster than most people realise — and self-employment is becoming the default, not a choice. This isn't just about AI. It's a structural shift driven by leaner businesses, stagnant wages, macro-economic turmoil, and a broken employment contract. By 2030, 92 million jobs will disappear. The World Bank already counts nearly half the global workforce as self-employed. This post unpacks why it's happening, what it means for workers and economies, and how to protect your livelihood as the future of work tilts toward entrepreneurship.
A letter to my Ideal Client
In the five plus years of coaching smart, thoughtful, entrepreneurs and career pivoters, I’ve noticed some common traits and patterns. The accumulation of those traits and patterns? That’s my Ideal Client.
Read on if you’re exploring coaching with me, or for some inspiration about the clarity on Ideal Clients you get after many years in the game.
Is your “coach” or “consultant” label costing you clients?
As the world becomes more entrepreneurial and more people take on independent work, these labels don't differentiate you. They're horizontal positioning — the core method you use — but they don't tell anyone what makes your work meaningful or distinct.
‘The Authority Economy’: Master the business lessons from 7 figure entrepreneurs like Esther Perel, James Clear and Ramit Sethi.
Discover how you can master the Authority Economy by learning from business Titans who have successfully scaled their businesses to 7+ figures. Learn how to get noticed, leverage your skills and create a profitable gap for yourself in today’s digital world.
How to run an Authority-Led business: A mega guide for expertise-based business owners.
Dive into the evolving world of authority-led businesses where expertise, clarity, and connection form the currency of success. Ellen Donnelly, a seasoned business coach, shares her insights on building a solid foundation, crafting a compelling identity, and sustaining long-term growth.
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